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Is my lingerie size the same as my clothing size?
Not always. Lingerie brands set their own size charts, and fit depends heavily on fabric stretch and cut, so your usual dress or jeans size is only a rough starting point. Measure your hips, waist, thighs and underbust with a soft tape, then compare those numbers to the chart on each product page. Measurements stay consistent across brands even when labels don't.
What does QN mean in lingerie sizing?
QN stands for queen, a plus-size version of a one-size (O/S) piece. It's cut with extra length and room so stretchy styles like bodystockings and suspender sets don't have to be pulled to their limit. Always check the product's chart for the exact height, weight or hip range, and choose queen if you sit near the top of the one-size range.
Should lingerie feel tight?
Lingerie should feel snug and secure, not tight. Elastic shouldn't dig in or leave deep marks, straps should lie flat, and nothing should restrict breathing or circulation. A little impression after hours of wear is normal; pain, numbness or red welts are not. If a piece feels uncomfortable, try the next size up or a different cut rather than putting up with it.
How do I measure for thigh-high stockings?
Measure around the fullest part of your upper thigh, roughly where the stocking band will sit, and note your height. Compare both numbers to the product's size chart. Measure each leg, since they can differ slightly. If you fall between sizes, size up for comfort, especially with stay-ups, because an overly tight band tends to roll down and pinch.
Can I return lingerie if it doesn't fit?
YourFemme accepts returns on unopened items within 30 days. That's why it's worth measuring carefully and checking each product's size chart before ordering, then keeping packaging sealed until you're sure. If you're unsure between two sizes, the product chart and your hip or thigh measurement are your best tiebreakers, and sizing up is usually the safer choice.
Do thigh-high stockings stay up on their own?
Some do. Stay-up styles have a grippy band, often silicone-lined, that holds them on your thigh. Others are designed to be worn with a garter belt or suspenders. Check the product description to see which type you're buying. For stay-ups, a correct thigh fit matters most, and skipping lotion on your thighs beforehand helps the band grip.