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It's usually the seal. Try lightening your pressure, adding a drop of lube to the rim, and re-centering the nozzle directly over your clitoral glans. A nozzle that's too large for your anatomy can lose the pulse, so swappable heads help. Being properly aroused first also makes a big difference. Only increase the intensity once fit and placement feel right.
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