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Many people compare the soft, rhythmic pull to oral sex, which is a big part of their appeal. That said, it's really its own sensation: focused pressure rather than a moving tongue. If you specifically want tongue-like motion, licking or oral-style toys may feel closer. Bodies differ, so the only way to know is to try and see what yours enjoys.
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