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Completely normal. Many people feel a mix of excitement and awkwardness the first time. It helps to remember that vibrators are mainstream wellness products and that pleasure is a healthy part of life. Shopping online with discreet, plain-box shipping and a neutral billing name takes much of the pressure off, and starting with an affordable, simple toy keeps the stakes low.
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