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Silicone is the easiest all-rounder for most beginners: it is soft, warms quickly, is nonporous and is simple to clean. If you want a low-cost first vibrator, an ABS bullet is also a good nonporous option. Glass and metal are lovely once you know you enjoy firmer pressure. Pair any of them with a water-based lube and a gentle toy cleaner.
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