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A good fit feels snug but never tight or painful. If you're unsure, start with an adjustable lasso or bolo ring, which you can loosen or tighten as needed, or a multi-size stretchy silicone set. Save fixed-size metal or leather rings until you know your fit, since they can't stretch and may be harder to remove.
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