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There's no single best pick, but beginner favorites include sex dice or card games, massage oils, small bullet vibrators and vibrating cock rings. They're affordable, easy to use and clearly designed for two. If you can't decide, a couples starter kit lets you sample a few styles before committing to something bigger.
Read the full guideHow to Suggest a Sex Toy to Your Partner Without AwkwardnessWant to suggest a sex toy to your partner without it feeling like criticism? Scripts, timing, easy beginner picks and what to do if they say no. Updated November 9, 2026 · All questions
