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This is exactly why a flared base is essential, and why you should never use anything without one anally. A plug with a proper base should not slip fully inside. If any object does become lodged and you can't comfortably retrieve it, don't keep digging; seek medical care promptly. Clinicians handle this routinely and without judgment.
Read the full guideButt Plug Size Guide: How to Pick and Size Up SafelyButt plug size guide: how to read diameter and length, what size to start with, and how to size up safely and comfortably, one step at a time. Updated November 9, 2026 · All questions
