Short answer
It shouldn't. Pressure, fullness and an unfamiliar sensation are common, but sharp or burning pain means you need more lube, more warm-up time or a smaller toy. Stop, breathe, and try again another day if needed. If pain continues even when you go slowly, check in with a clinician to rule out issues like fissures or hemorrhoids.
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