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There can be a small delay, called latency, between your partner tapping a command and the toy responding. It depends on both internet connections and the app's servers. On strong Wi-Fi it usually feels responsive; on patchy hotel or mobile connections it may stutter or drop. Closing other data-heavy apps, using Wi-Fi where possible and doing a short test run beforehand all help.
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