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Yes, crying after sex or play happens to many people and isn't automatically a sign that something went wrong. Intense sensation and emotion can bring tears of relief, release or overwhelm. Offer comfort and ask what they need. If sadness or distress keeps happening, lasts a long time, or feels linked to past experiences, talking with a clinician or therapist can help.
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