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Not at all. People of every gender and orientation enjoy anal play. Those with a prostate may love direct P-spot stimulation, while people with vulvas often enjoy the nerve-rich opening and indirect pressure on nearby structures. Your curiosity, comfort and consent matter far more than any label.
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