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Absolutely. Wands and bullets work for any combination of bodies, vibrating strap-ons are a favorite with many queer couples, and vibrating rings can be worn on a dildo, not just a penis. When choosing, focus on where each of you wants sensation and whether you prefer hands-free or hand-held play, rather than on whether a product is labeled for a particular kind of couple.
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