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Prostate play for pleasure shouldn't be treated as a medical therapy. If you have urinary symptoms, pelvic pain, a known prostate condition or any bleeding, talk to a doctor before trying it and don't attempt to self-treat. A clinician can advise whether this kind of play is suitable for you.
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