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Silicone lube can break down the surface of some silicone toys, leaving them tacky or rough. To be safe, pair silicone toys with a thick water-based or hybrid lube, or spot-test a little silicone lube on the base first. Silicone lube is a great match for glass and metal toys, which it won't damage.
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