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Yes, and many couples love it. Small bullets and mini wands are especially easy to bring into partnered play because they're compact and can be used on either person. Start with a relaxed conversation outside the bedroom about what you're curious about, agree to go slowly, and treat the first try as playful exploration rather than a performance.
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