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Coconut and other oils break down latex condoms, so they aren't a safe choice if you rely on latex for contraception or STI protection. Oils can also be harder to rinse out, and some people find they irritate internal tissue. A purpose-made water-based, silicone or hybrid lube is usually a gentler option, while oils work nicely for external massage.
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