Short answer
Neither is better overall; they suit different moments. Water-based lube is the most versatile because it's safe with every toy and condom and washes off easily. Silicone lube lasts much longer and works in water, making it great for the shower and anal play. Many people keep a water-based bottle for everyday use and a silicone or hybrid lube for when they need extra staying power.
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