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Any connected device carries some privacy risk, so it's sensible to be careful. Choose brands that keep their apps updated, read the privacy policy, use a strong unique password if an account is required, deny unnecessary permissions like contacts or location, and only share connection invites with your partner. Ending sessions when you're done and updating firmware regularly help keep your toy and data secure.
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