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Mild pressure marks that fade within a short time are common after restraints. What isn't normal is numbness, tingling, weakness or coldness in the hands or feet that doesn't go away soon after release, since it can signal nerve or circulation compression. Stop, remove the restraints, and contact a clinician if those symptoms persist.
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