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Many people can. Deep, rumbly vibration from a wand tends to be felt more than a light buzz, and exploring other areas of the body can help too. Because you may not notice friction or pressure, use plenty of lube, change position regularly and check your skin afterward. If you see broken skin or sores, pause and speak to a clinician.
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