# YourFemme
> YourFemme (https://yourfemme.com) is a US online sexual-wellness store for adults 18+: vibrators, dildos, anal toys, toys for men, couples toys, bondage, lingerie and wellness essentials such as lubricant and toy cleaner. 2704 products from $17.99 to $300.99. Every order ships in a plain, unbranded box with a neutral billing name.

## Key facts
- Shipping: US only. Free standard shipping on orders over $79; standard delivery 3–5 business days after 1–2 handling days. Express and overnight available.
- Discretion: plain packaging with no product names outside; neutral name on card statements.
- Returns: 30 days from delivery for unopened items; customer pays return shipping; refunds within 14 days of approval.
- Rewards: 1 point per $1; 100 points = $5 off; 10% off the first order for new accounts.
- Contact: info@yourfemme.com · https://yourfemme.com/info/contact

## Shop by category
- [Vibrators](https://yourfemme.com/vibrators): Rabbits, bullets, G-spot curves and wands, chosen for how they feel, not how they look on a shelf.
- [Rabbit Vibrators](https://yourfemme.com/vibrators/rabbit): Dual stimulation, inside and out, on one beautifully curved toy.
- [G-Spot Vibrators](https://yourfemme.com/vibrators/g-spot): Curved tips and firm shafts that find the spot and stay there.
- [Bullet Vibrators](https://yourfemme.com/vibrators/bullet): Pocket-sized, whisper-close and far stronger than they look.
- [Wands & Clit Toys](https://yourfemme.com/vibrators/clit-toys): Deep-rumbling wands, air-pulse suction and pinpoint external play.
- [Dildos](https://yourfemme.com/dildos): Realistic, glass, suction-cup and harness-ready. Find the curve, size and feel that suits you.
- [Anal Toys](https://yourfemme.com/anal-toys): Plugs, beads and trainers for first-timers and connoisseurs alike.
- [For Him](https://yourfemme.com/for-him): Strokers, pumps, rings and prostate pleasure, without the neon packaging.
- [Strokers](https://yourfemme.com/for-him/strokers): Soft, tight and textured. Pocket-sized to hands-free.
- [Penis Pumps & Sleeves](https://yourfemme.com/for-him/penis-pumps): Manual and electric pumps, extensions and sleeves.
- [Cock Rings](https://yourfemme.com/for-him/cock-rings): Stretchy, vibrating and adjustable rings that help you last.
- [Prostate & P-Spot](https://yourfemme.com/for-him/prostate): Angled massagers and plugs made for the P-spot.
- [Couples](https://yourfemme.com/couples): Wearables, remotes, strap-ons and games. Hand over the controls.
- [Bondage](https://yourfemme.com/bondage): Cuffs, blindfolds, paddles and restraints, for beginners and devotees.
- [Lingerie](https://yourfemme.com/lingerie): Lace, mesh and sheer sets, made to be seen, and then not.
- [Wellness](https://yourfemme.com/wellness): Lubricants, massage and care for everything you love.
- [Lubricants](https://yourfemme.com/wellness/lube): Water-based, silicone, flavored and warming.
- [Massage & Candles](https://yourfemme.com/wellness/massage): Oils, lotions and candles for slow hands.
- [Toy Care & Essentials](https://yourfemme.com/wellness/essentials): Cleaners, condoms, storage and enhancers.

## Brands
- [All brands](https://yourfemme.com/brands): A-Play, Addiction, Adrien Lastic, After Dark Essentials, Alive, Alpha, Alpha Pro, Anal Adventures, Anal Fantasy Collection, Anal Fantasy Elite Collection, Aneros, Apollo, Arcwave, Avant, Awkward Essentials, B Yours, B Yours Plus, Ball and Chain, Bang!, Basic Essentials, Basix Rubber Works, Bathmate, Bcharmed, BeauMents, Before and After

## Knowledge Base
Plain-English guides to toys, materials, lubricants and care. Index: https://yourfemme.com/learn/knowledge
- [Traveling With Sex Toys: Airport Security & Packing Tips](https://yourfemme.com/blog/traveling-with-sex-toys): Traveling with sex toys? Learn TSA rules, carry-on vs checked bags, lithium battery and lube limits, travel locks, customs laws and discreet packing.
- [How to Store, Charge and Look After Your Sex Toys](https://yourfemme.com/blog/how-to-store-and-charge-sex-toys): Learn how to store and charge sex toys so they last: material-safe storage, battery care, charging fixes, travel tips and when it's time to replace a toy.
- [Lingerie Size Guide: How to Measure and Find Your Fit](https://yourfemme.com/blog/lingerie-size-guide): Our lingerie size guide shows you how to measure hips, waist and thighs, decode O/S and queen sizing, and choose thongs, slips and stockings that fit.
- [App-Controlled & Long-Distance Sex Toys: How They Work](https://yourfemme.com/blog/long-distance-app-controlled-toys): App-controlled and long-distance sex toys explained: how they connect, remote vs app vs Wi-Fi, privacy tips, and how to use one with a partner.
- [Couples Vibrators: How to Choose One You Will Both Love](https://yourfemme.com/blog/couples-vibrators-guide): Couples vibrators explained: wearable, ring, wand and remote styles, plus how to pick one you'll both love, what to ask each other, and how to start.
- [Penis Pumps: How They Work and How to Use Them Safely](https://yourfemme.com/blog/penis-pump-safety): How do penis pumps work, and how do you use one safely? Learn the types, a step-by-step routine, time limits, warning signs and cleaning tips.
- [Strokers and Sleeves: How to Choose, Use and Care for Them](https://yourfemme.com/blog/stroker-and-sleeve-care): Strokers and sleeves explained: how to pick the right material, texture and tightness, use one comfortably, and clean, dry and store it so it lasts.
- [How to Use a Cock Ring Safely: Fit, Timing & Beginner Tips](https://yourfemme.com/blog/how-to-use-a-cock-ring-safely): Learn how to use a cock ring safely: how to pick the right size and material, put it on, how long to wear it, warning signs, and the best beginner rings.
- [Prostate Massage: A Beginner's Guide to the P-Spot](https://yourfemme.com/blog/prostate-massage-guide): New to prostate massage? Learn where the P-spot is, how to prepare, which beginner toys to try, and how to stay safe and comfortable from the first try.
- [Butt Plug Size Guide: How to Pick and Size Up Safely](https://yourfemme.com/blog/butt-plug-size-guide): Butt plug size guide: how to read diameter and length, what size to start with, and how to size up safely and comfortably, one step at a time.
- [Anal Play for Beginners: Comfort, Safety and First Toys](https://yourfemme.com/blog/anal-play-for-beginners): Anal play for beginners, made simple: how to prepare, why lube and flared bases matter, what to expect the first time, and the best first toys to try.
- [How to Choose a Dildo: Size, Shape and Material Guide](https://yourfemme.com/blog/dildo-size-and-shape-guide): Learn how to choose a dildo that suits your body: realistic sizing tips, curved vs straight shapes, body-safe materials, suction cups and beginner picks.
- [How Clitoral Suction Toys Work (and Who They Suit Best)](https://yourfemme.com/blog/how-clitoral-suction-toys-work): Clitoral suction toys use pulsing air, not direct contact. Learn how they work, who they suit, how to choose one, and tips for your first try.
- [The G-Spot: What It Is, Where It Is & How to Find It](https://yourfemme.com/blog/g-spot-guide): What is the G-spot, where is it, and how do you find it? A frank, body-positive guide to anatomy, techniques, toys and what to do if it's not your thing.
- [Types of Vibrators Explained: Bullets, Wands, Rabbits & More](https://yourfemme.com/blog/types-of-vibrators-explained): Types of vibrators explained in plain English: bullets, wands, rabbits, G-spot, finger and clitoral suction toys, plus how to pick the right one for you.
- [Sex Toy Materials Explained: Silicone, Glass, Metal, ABS & TPE](https://yourfemme.com/blog/sex-toy-materials-explained): Sex toy materials explained: how silicone, glass, metal, ABS and TPE compare on feel, safety, lube compatibility and cleaning, and what to buy.
- [How to Choose Your First Vibrator (Without the Overwhelm)](https://yourfemme.com/blog/how-to-choose-your-first-vibrator): Choosing your first vibrator? Learn how to pick the right type, strength, material and budget, plus what else to buy, without the overwhelm or guesswork.
- [Water vs. Silicone Lube: The Only Guide You Need](https://yourfemme.com/blog/water-vs-silicone-lube-guide): Water vs. silicone lube: how they feel, how long they last, which toys and condoms they're safe with, and how to pick the right lube for every situation.
- [How to Clean Sex Toys (and Store Them) the Right Way](https://yourfemme.com/blog/how-to-clean-sex-toys): Learn how to clean sex toys by material, from silicone to TPE, care for vibrators safely, avoid common mistakes, and store your collection the right way.
- [How to Suggest a Sex Toy to Your Partner Without Awkwardness](https://yourfemme.com/blog/couples-toys-how-to-bring-one-up): Want to suggest a sex toy to your partner without it feeling like criticism? Scripts, timing, easy beginner picks and what to do if they say no.
- [A Beginner's Guide to Light Bondage: Gear, Safety & Consent](https://yourfemme.com/blog/beginners-guide-to-bondage): New to light bondage? Learn how to talk about it, choose a safe word, pick beginner-friendly cuffs and blindfolds, stay safe, and give great aftercare.
- [What Does “Body-Safe” Actually Mean? A Toy Material Guide](https://yourfemme.com/blog/what-does-body-safe-mean): What does body-safe actually mean? Learn which sex toy materials are non-porous, which to avoid, and how to spot vague labels before you buy.

## Sexual Health & Wellness
Body-positive, evidence-based answers on pleasure and sexual health. Index: https://yourfemme.com/learn/health
- [Accessible Sex Toys: Options for Disability and Limited Mobility](https://yourfemme.com/blog/accessible-sex-toys-disability): Accessible sex toys for disability and limited mobility: how to choose by grip, reach, controls and sensation, plus tips and when to see a clinician.
- [Erection Changes: What's Common and Which Toys Can Help](https://yourfemme.com/blog/erection-changes-and-toys-that-help): Erection changes are common and often temporary. Learn what's normal, when to see a clinician, and how cock rings, pumps and other toys can help.
- [Trouble Reaching Orgasm? Causes and Practical Tips That Help](https://yourfemme.com/blog/trouble-reaching-orgasm): Trouble reaching orgasm? Learn the common physical, emotional and medication-related causes, practical tips that help, and when to talk to a clinician.
- [Safer Sex Basics: Condoms, Toys and STI Prevention Guide](https://yourfemme.com/blog/safer-sex-basics): Safer sex basics made simple: how to use condoms and lube correctly, share sex toys safely, prevent STIs, get tested, and know when to see a clinician.
- [Pelvic Floor Health & Kegel Balls: A Beginner's Guide](https://yourfemme.com/blog/pelvic-floor-and-kegel-balls): New to Kegel balls? Learn how your pelvic floor works, how to choose and use Kegel balls safely, how to clean them, and when to talk to a clinician first.
- [Menopause and Pleasure: What Changes and What Helps](https://yourfemme.com/blog/menopause-and-pleasure): Menopause and pleasure: how falling estrogen affects arousal, dryness and desire, plus the lubes, toys and clinician support that genuinely help.
- [Vaginal Dryness: Causes, Relief & Choosing a Lubricant](https://yourfemme.com/blog/vaginal-dryness-and-lubricant): Vaginal dryness is common and treatable. Learn the main causes, relief options, when to see a clinician, and how to choose a lubricant that suits you.
- [Aftercare: What It Is, Why It Matters & How to Do It](https://yourfemme.com/blog/aftercare-guide): What is aftercare, and why does it matter after sex or kink? Learn what to do, how to plan it, what sub drop is, and when to check in with a clinician.

## Newsroom
Announcements and updates from YourFemme. Index: https://yourfemme.com/learn/news
- [YourFemme Rewards: points on every order and review](https://yourfemme.com/blog/yourfemme-rewards): Earn 1 point per dollar, 100 welcome points and 25 points per approved review. Every 100 points is $5 off.
- [Introducing Find Your Match, a private two-minute toy quiz](https://yourfemme.com/blog/introducing-find-your-match): Answer five private questions and get a personal scenario plus a ready-made kit of body-safe toys. Your answers are never saved.
- [Build Your Own Bundle: save up to 20% on any combination](https://yourfemme.com/blog/build-your-own-bundle-launch): Pick a main piece and up to three extras and save automatically: 10% off 2 pieces, 15% off 3 pieces, 20% off 4 pieces.

## Help Center (FAQ)
Every answer has its own page. Index: https://yourfemme.com/help · Machine-readable: https://yourfemme.com/llms.json
- [How much does shipping cost?](https://yourfemme.com/help/how-much-does-shipping-cost)
- [How long does delivery take?](https://yourfemme.com/help/how-long-does-delivery-take)
- [Where do you ship?](https://yourfemme.com/help/where-do-you-ship)
- [How do I track my order?](https://yourfemme.com/help/how-do-i-track-my-order)
- [Can I change or cancel my order?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-i-change-or-cancel-my-order)
- [What if my package arrives damaged or an item is missing?](https://yourfemme.com/help/what-if-my-package-arrives-damaged-or-an-item-is-missing)
- [Do you charge sales tax?](https://yourfemme.com/help/do-you-charge-sales-tax)
- [Is my order shipped discreetly?](https://yourfemme.com/help/is-my-order-shipped-discreetly)
- [What will appear on my bank or card statement?](https://yourfemme.com/help/what-will-appear-on-my-bank-or-card-statement)
- [Do you share or sell my personal information?](https://yourfemme.com/help/do-you-share-or-sell-my-personal-information)
- [Will your emails or texts reveal what I bought?](https://yourfemme.com/help/will-your-emails-or-texts-reveal-what-i-bought)
- [Do I need an account to place an order?](https://yourfemme.com/help/do-i-need-an-account-to-place-an-order)
- [What is your return policy?](https://yourfemme.com/help/what-is-your-return-policy)
- [Who pays for return shipping?](https://yourfemme.com/help/who-pays-for-return-shipping)
- [How long do refunds take?](https://yourfemme.com/help/how-long-do-refunds-take)
- [What if my toy stops working?](https://yourfemme.com/help/what-if-my-toy-stops-working)
- [How do rewards points work?](https://yourfemme.com/help/how-do-rewards-points-work)
- [Do rewards points expire?](https://yourfemme.com/help/do-rewards-points-expire)
- [Is there a discount on my first order?](https://yourfemme.com/help/is-there-a-discount-on-my-first-order)
- [How do bundle discounts work?](https://yourfemme.com/help/how-do-bundle-discounts-work)
- [Can I combine discounts?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-i-combine-discounts)
- [Is it safe to pay on your site?](https://yourfemme.com/help/is-it-safe-to-pay-on-your-site)
- [How do I sign in without a password?](https://yourfemme.com/help/how-do-i-sign-in-without-a-password)
- [How do I unsubscribe from emails?](https://yourfemme.com/help/how-do-i-unsubscribe-from-emails)
- [How do I contact customer care?](https://yourfemme.com/help/how-do-i-contact-customer-care)
- [Does anal play hurt the first time?](https://yourfemme.com/help/does-anal-play-hurt-the-first-time)
- [How long can you safely wear a butt plug?](https://yourfemme.com/help/how-long-can-you-safely-wear-a-butt-plug)
- [Do I have to douche before anal play?](https://yourfemme.com/help/do-i-have-to-douche-before-anal-play)
- [Will sizing up permanently stretch me out?](https://yourfemme.com/help/will-sizing-up-permanently-stretch-me-out)
- [What size butt plug should a beginner get?](https://yourfemme.com/help/what-size-butt-plug-should-a-beginner-get)
- [Should I use numbing lube for a bigger plug?](https://yourfemme.com/help/should-i-use-numbing-lube-for-a-bigger-plug)
- [How long can I leave a butt plug in?](https://yourfemme.com/help/how-long-can-i-leave-a-butt-plug-in)
- [Why do I feel like I need to poop when I use a butt plug?](https://yourfemme.com/help/why-do-i-feel-like-i-need-to-poop-when-i-use-a-butt-plug)
- [Can I use silicone lube with silicone anal toys?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-i-use-silicone-lube-with-silicone-anal-toys)
- [Can I use silicone lube with a silicone butt plug?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-i-use-silicone-lube-with-a-silicone-butt-plug)
- [Why does anal play make me feel like I need to poo?](https://yourfemme.com/help/why-does-anal-play-make-me-feel-like-i-need-to-poo)
- [What if a plug goes in further than it should?](https://yourfemme.com/help/what-if-a-plug-goes-in-further-than-it-should)
- [Is anal play only for certain genders or orientations?](https://yourfemme.com/help/is-anal-play-only-for-certain-genders-or-orientations)
- [Does everyone with a vagina have a G-spot?](https://yourfemme.com/help/does-everyone-with-a-vagina-have-a-g-spot)
- [How long does it normally take to orgasm?](https://yourfemme.com/help/how-long-does-it-normally-take-to-orgasm)
- [How far inside is the G-spot?](https://yourfemme.com/help/how-far-inside-is-the-g-spot)
- [Can antidepressants stop you from having an orgasm?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-antidepressants-stop-you-from-having-an-orgasm)
- [Why do I feel like I need to pee during G-spot stimulation?](https://yourfemme.com/help/why-do-i-feel-like-i-need-to-pee-during-g-spot-stimulation)
- [Can using a vibrator too often make you numb?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-using-a-vibrator-too-often-make-you-numb)
- [Can you stimulate the G-spot during penetrative sex?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-you-stimulate-the-g-spot-during-penetrative-sex)
- [Is it normal not to orgasm from penetration alone?](https://yourfemme.com/help/is-it-normal-not-to-orgasm-from-penetration-alone)
- [Is a G-spot orgasm different from a clitoral orgasm?](https://yourfemme.com/help/is-a-g-spot-orgasm-different-from-a-clitoral-orgasm)
- [Can stress really stop me from orgasming?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-stress-really-stop-me-from-orgasming)
- [Do people with a penis have a G-spot?](https://yourfemme.com/help/do-people-with-a-penis-have-a-g-spot)
- [Can pelvic floor exercises help with orgasm?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-pelvic-floor-exercises-help-with-orgasm)
- [Is it normal not to enjoy G-spot stimulation?](https://yourfemme.com/help/is-it-normal-not-to-enjoy-g-spot-stimulation)
- [What kind of doctor should I see about orgasm problems?](https://yourfemme.com/help/what-kind-of-doctor-should-i-see-about-orgasm-problems)
- [Not sure where to start?](https://yourfemme.com/help/not-sure-where-to-start)
- [Is it normal to feel nervous about buying a first vibrator?](https://yourfemme.com/help/is-it-normal-to-feel-nervous-about-buying-a-first-vibrator)
- [What is the difference between buzzy and rumbly vibrations?](https://yourfemme.com/help/what-is-the-difference-between-buzzy-and-rumbly-vibrations)
- [Do clitoral suction toys feel like oral sex?](https://yourfemme.com/help/do-clitoral-suction-toys-feel-like-oral-sex)
- [Can I use the same dildo for vaginal and anal play?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-i-use-the-same-dildo-for-vaginal-and-anal-play)
- [Can a vibrator desensitize you?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-a-vibrator-desensitize-you)
- [Are wand vibrators too strong for beginners?](https://yourfemme.com/help/are-wand-vibrators-too-strong-for-beginners)
- [Can a suction toy desensitize you?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-a-suction-toy-desensitize-you)
- [Can you use silicone lube with a silicone dildo?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-you-use-silicone-lube-with-a-silicone-dildo)
- [Can I use my vibrator in the shower or bath?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-i-use-my-vibrator-in-the-shower-or-bath)
- [Can I use a vibrator with a partner?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-i-use-a-vibrator-with-a-partner)
- [What lube should I use with a clitoral suction toy?](https://yourfemme.com/help/what-lube-should-i-use-with-a-clitoral-suction-toy)
- [How do I know if a dildo is too big?](https://yourfemme.com/help/how-do-i-know-if-a-dildo-is-too-big)
- [What kind of lube should I use with a vibrator?](https://yourfemme.com/help/what-kind-of-lube-should-i-use-with-a-vibrator)
- [Why can't I feel anything from my suction toy?](https://yourfemme.com/help/why-can-t-i-feel-anything-from-my-suction-toy)
- [Do suction cup dildos actually stick?](https://yourfemme.com/help/do-suction-cup-dildos-actually-stick)
- [How do I clean a new vibrator?](https://yourfemme.com/help/how-do-i-clean-a-new-vibrator)
- [Can using a vibrator too often cause numbness?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-using-a-vibrator-too-often-cause-numbness)
- [Are clitoral suction toys loud?](https://yourfemme.com/help/are-clitoral-suction-toys-loud)
- [Are jelly dildos safe to use?](https://yourfemme.com/help/are-jelly-dildos-safe-to-use)
- [Are cheap vibrators safe to use?](https://yourfemme.com/help/are-cheap-vibrators-safe-to-use)
- [Are rechargeable vibrators better than battery-powered ones?](https://yourfemme.com/help/are-rechargeable-vibrators-better-than-battery-powered-ones)
- [Can I use a clitoral suction toy in the shower or bath?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-i-use-a-clitoral-suction-toy-in-the-shower-or-bath)
- [What's the difference between a dildo and a vibrator?](https://yourfemme.com/help/what-s-the-difference-between-a-dildo-and-a-vibrator)
- [Can I use my vibrator with a partner?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-i-use-my-vibrator-with-a-partner)
- [How do I know if a vibrator is waterproof?](https://yourfemme.com/help/how-do-i-know-if-a-vibrator-is-waterproof)
- [Can I use a clitoral suction toy on my nipples?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-i-use-a-clitoral-suction-toy-on-my-nipples)
- [How should I store my dildo?](https://yourfemme.com/help/how-should-i-store-my-dildo)
- [Will my partner think a sex toy means they're not enough?](https://yourfemme.com/help/will-my-partner-think-a-sex-toy-means-they-re-not-enough)
- [What is the easiest couples vibrator for beginners?](https://yourfemme.com/help/what-is-the-easiest-couples-vibrator-for-beginners)
- [Do long-distance sex toys work in different countries?](https://yourfemme.com/help/do-long-distance-sex-toys-work-in-different-countries)
- [What is the best first sex toy for couples?](https://yourfemme.com/help/what-is-the-best-first-sex-toy-for-couples)
- [How long can you wear a vibrating cock ring?](https://yourfemme.com/help/how-long-can-you-wear-a-vibrating-cock-ring)
- [Can I use an app-controlled toy without my phone?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-i-use-an-app-controlled-toy-without-my-phone)
- [Should I bring up sex toys over text?](https://yourfemme.com/help/should-i-bring-up-sex-toys-over-text)
- [Will using a vibrator make my partner feel replaced?](https://yourfemme.com/help/will-using-a-vibrator-make-my-partner-feel-replaced)
- [Can app-controlled sex toys be hacked?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-app-controlled-sex-toys-be-hacked)
- [How do we choose a toy if we want different things?](https://yourfemme.com/help/how-do-we-choose-a-toy-if-we-want-different-things)
- [Can same-sex couples use couples vibrators?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-same-sex-couples-use-couples-vibrators)
- [Do both partners need to buy a toy for long-distance play?](https://yourfemme.com/help/do-both-partners-need-to-buy-a-toy-for-long-distance-play)
- [Can I use a toy I already own with my partner?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-i-use-a-toy-i-already-own-with-my-partner)
- [Can I use silicone lube with a silicone couples vibrator?](https://yourfemme.com/help/can-i-use-silicone-lube-with-a-silicone-couples-vibrator)
- [Is there a delay when a partner controls the toy remotely?](https://yourfemme.com/help/is-there-a-delay-when-a-partner-controls-the-toy-remotely)
- [Will anyone know what I ordered?](https://yourfemme.com/help/will-anyone-know-what-i-ordered)
- [Are remote-controlled vibrators good for long-distance couples?](https://yourfemme.com/help/are-remote-controlled-vibrators-good-for-long-distance-couples)
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